US Elections Expose Misogyny and Racism: 5 Reasons Decentering Men and Rejecting ‘Pick-Me’ Women Is Critical Now
The results of the recent U.S. elections reveal a harsh truth: misogyny and racism are alive, thriving, and deeply entrenched in our systems. Decentering men is the need of the hour—it’s no longer a choice. From the systemic undermining of women’s rights to the rise...
Decentering Men Like a Pro: Lessons from Lorraine Lyon in Fargo Season 5
After Dot, Lorraine Lyon is the character I couldn’t wait to see unfold in Fargo Season 5. Lorraine isn’t your typical “girl boss”—her success isn’t about flashy power moves or luck. Instead, it’s her sharp decision-making and thoughtful strategies that truly...
Narcissistic Fathers and Their Daughters: 5 Reasons I Was Blind to My Father’s Narcissism for So Long
Have you ever noticed something a little off about your father? You can't quite put your finger on what it is, but deep down, you know something just isn’t right. Maybe you first realized it when you noticed how different your friends' fathers were compared to...
Romance and Marriages in Patriarchy| Is Dating and Marriage Worth It for Women? | “Thappad” Movie
Source: Stills from 'Thappad' (Amazon Prime) In this article, we are focusing on heterosexual relationships. All That Glitters Is Not Gold This is the line that comes to mind when I think about romance and marriage. How many people are truly happy in their marriages?...
Celebrating Sisterhood: Analyzing “Polite Society” | 8 Highlights of the Movie
Source: Stills from Polite Society (Netflix) Polite Society is one of the most entertaining movies released in 2023. It is a unique genre movie that combines action, drama, and science fiction. This movie truly represents what marriage stands for in a patriarchy. It...
Decentering Men in Your Work Environment : 8 Ways to Empower Women for Professional Success
Decentering (dēˈsen(t)əriNG; noun) Displacement from a central position, especially of the individual human subject from a primary place or central role. (Oxford Language Dictionary) Decentering men in the workplace is about reclaiming your power, ensuring...
Decentering Men: Empowering Movie Recommendations on Women Friendships (Part 1)
The movie recommendations given below can uplift you when you see no hope in the world around you—especially when it comes to matters of patriarchy. Watching movies and shows that value women and their relationships with other women will create more opportunities for...
Living for You: 12 Strategies to Decenter Men in Your Personal Life
“It is vain to expect virtue from women till they are in some degree independent of men.”― Mary Wollstonecraft, A Vindication of the Rights of Woman What is Decentering Men and Why Should We Decenter Men in Our Personal Lives? Decentering men means putting yourself...
Women as Commodities in Dating Apps: A Deep Dive into Ashley Madison and Bumble
Bumble’s billboards. Credit: Cluffalo via X Dating sites and apps always promote themselves as modern and liberal. The truth of the matter is they are still very backwards and only consider "men" as their paying customers and women as their "products." The dating apps...