This Christmas movie list is a bit unconventional. The movies/shows may not be exactly Christmasy, but they definitely fill your heart with joy, peace, and optimism. It is in line with the spirit of Christmas.

We have included lighthearted shows that give you strength to move forward. This Chritmas movie list deals with difficult topics but present them in a different light.

 

Here is our Christmas Movie List (The list involves TV shows as well)

 

1. Little Miss Sunshine

The expression “When life throws you lemons, make lemonade” comes to life in “Little Miss Sunshine.” The film offers a unique portrayal of life, presenting the diverse struggles of individuals in various stages of their lives. It provides a great viewing experience as it captures the different perspectives on life’s challenges.

A real loser is someone who’s so afraid of not winning he doesn’t even try.
ALAN ARKIN – Grandpa Edwin Hoover

2. Tangled

“Tangled” tells the story of a young girl’s journey of self-discovery. The film explores how narcissists in our lives may pretend to protect us but, in reality, hinder us from living our own lives. It provides an engaging and entertaining portrayal of the control exerted by narcissists.

 “You were wrong about the world, and you were wrong about me. And I will never let you use my hair again!” — Rapunzel

3. Grace and Frankie

“Grace and Frankie” is a captivating show that depicts the challenges faced by two women in their 60s as their world crumbles. The series explores themes of resilience, life, and the significant impact each unique personality can have on those around us.

“I played by all the rules! Why didn’t you tell me there weren’t any rules, it’s not fair!” 

— Grace Hanson

4. Schitt’s Creek

“Schitt’s Creek” is a comedic portrayal of resilience in the face of drastic lifestyle changes. The show explores the theme of “change” and depicts how a family unwittingly and beautifully adapts for the better. With a cast of interesting characters, it’s a delightful and entertaining series.

‘I don’t skate through life, David. I walk through life in really nice shoes.’ALexis Rose

 

5. The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel

“The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel” follows a woman’s journey to self-discovery after her husband leaves her. The series is a delightful mix of humor, wit, and emotion, portraying each character’s unique journey and relationships with depth and complexity. A must-watch for its engaging storytelling and exploration of family dynamics and friendships. 

“You made me passionate, and independent, and broke!” — Rose Weinberg

 

6. The Harry Potter Movies

Undoubtedly amazing, the Harry Potter movies offer an enchanting escape to a fantasy world. The overarching theme of triumphing over evil resonates, and for some, the portrayal of Dementors may metaphorically evoke experiences with narcissists.

If there is one thing Voldemort cannot understand, it is love. He didn’t realize that love as powerful as your mother’s for you leaves its own mark. Not a scar, no visible sign… to have been loved so deeply, even though the person who loved us is gone, will give us some protection forever. It is in your very own skin.

— Albus Dumbledore

 

7. It’s a Wonderful Life

The film’s narrative revolves around George Bailey, facing financial ruin on Christmas Eve, contemplates suicide. In an unexpected turn, a guardian angel named Clarence intervenes to show George the profound impact he has had on the lives of those around him.

“It’s a Wonderful Life” delves into universal themes of resilience, the importance of human connection, and the transformative power of selflessness. The film encourages viewers to reflect on their own lives, emphasizing the impact of seemingly small acts of kindness and the profound ripple effect they can have.

George Bailey’s story is a reminder of the importance of compassion and community. Having a social life is extremely important, and survivors of narcissistic abuse must not isolate themselves, thinking they have nothing to offer. This is a must-have on your Christmas movie list.

“Strange, isn’t it? Each man’s life touches so many other lives. And when he isn’t around he leaves an awful hole, doesn’t he?”-Clarence

 

8. A Charlie Brown Christmas

This animated classic follows Charlie Brown as he discovers the true meaning of Christmas with the help of his friends and a small, scraggly Christmas tree.

The film addresses themes of friendship, self-discovery, and the importance of embracing the simplicity and authenticity of the holiday spirit. This is an essential addition to your Christmas movie list.

I think there must be something wrong with me, Linus. Christmas is coming, but I’m not happy. I don’t feel the way I’m supposed to feel.

CharlieBrown

 

9. Inside Out

The film delves into complex emotions, portraying joy, sadness, anger, fear, and disgust as characters with distinct personalities. It encourages viewers to acknowledge and express their feelings, promoting emotional intelligence.

As survivors of narcissistic abuse, it is important to pay attention to your feelings and moods, which we often forget as we lose our sense of self as part of the abuse. This movie is a reminder to pay attention to our feelings.

“Crying helps me slow down and obsess over the weight of life’s problems.” — Sadness

 

10. Cinderella (2022)

 A contemporary cinematic musical that offers a daring reinterpretation of the timeless fairy tale. Our ambitious heroine, fueled by grand aspirations, embarks on a journey to transform her dreams into reality, aided by her fabulous Godmother.

Narcissists shame our ambition and constantly try to put us down for the same. This movie reminds us to move past that obstacle and create a support system for ourselves.

The sweetest sounds I’ll ever hear are still inside my head. The kindest words I’ll ever know are waiting to be said. The most entrancing sight of all is yet for me to see and the dearest love in all the world is waiting somewhere for me.

– Brandy Norwood, Cinderella

Hope this Christmas movie list fills up your holidays with joy and happiness. Hope this Christmas Movie List can act as a great Christmas activity with your loved ones. 

Never be afraid when people can’t see what you see.

Only be afraid if you no longer see it.

—  Jeronicus Jangle, “Jingle Jangle: A Christmas Journey”

 

 

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