Christmas Activity Calendar : 25 days of Decentering Men

The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of love, joy, and connection.

The truth is, holiday magic is mostly created by women—from planning the meals to buying the gifts and making everything feel warm and festive.

This year, it’s time to turn that magic inward and prioritize you.

This year, we’re flipping the script with an empowering twist.

Welcome to the 25 Days of Decentering Men Christmas Activity Calendar, where each day invites you to engage in a meaningful activity, reflection, or practice that prioritizes you.

This isn’t just about breaking free from outdated traditions; it’s about creating a holiday experience that celebrates your worth, independence, and personal growth.

Here are 25 Christmas activities for decentering men. 

 

December 1: Reflect on Where You Unknowingly Prioritize Men

Today’s activity is about becoming aware of patterns in your life where you unconsciously place men’s needs, comfort, or emotions above your own or others who matter to you.

This is the first step in decentering men and reclaiming your energy.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

• Can you recall instances where you’ve prioritized a man’s preferences or comfort over your own or someone else’s?

• Have you ever adjusted your behavior to avoid upsetting a man, keeping his ego intact or preventing anger?

• Think about family dynamics—are there times you’ve prioritized your father’s needs over your mother’s, or your husband’s needs over your children’s?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, list one small way you can start breaking this pattern.

For example:

• Stop considering what a man or men might think when you dress up, wear makeup, or post on social media—let your self-expression be about you.

• Let a man handle his own comfort or emotional regulation for a day. Stop stepping in to help, soothe, or mother a grown man.

• Prioritize a woman’s (or your own) needs in a situation where you’d usually default to prioritizing his. For example:
  • If you’re hosting a holiday meal, focus on creating a dish you love or that your mother/sister enjoys, rather than catering exclusively to a man’s preferences.

Reflecting on these behaviors isn’t about blame—it’s about awareness and change.

December 2: Reflect on Ways You Take on or Initiate Tasks Because You’re a Woman

December 3: Reflect on Situations Where You Think Men Are Better by Default

Today’s activity invites you to challenge societal conditioning that might lead you to unconsciously perceive men as more competent, capable, or deserving in certain situations.

By recognizing these beliefs, you can begin to reshape your perspective and uplift yourself and other women.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

• Are there specific tasks or roles—like managing finances, fixing things, leading projects, or making decisions—where you’ve assumed men are naturally better?

• Can you identify where this belief might have come from—family dynamics, societal norms, media, or past experiences?

• How do these assumptions impact your confidence, behavior, or decisions in these situations?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, take one small step to challenge this belief in your everyday life. For example:

• Take the lead on something you’d typically defer to a man, like assembling furniture, handling a financial decision, or organizing a group activity.

• Celebrate and acknowledge women in your life (including yourself) who excel in roles or tasks often attributed to men.

• Reflect on your unique skills and strengths, and remind yourself that competence isn’t defined by gender.

Challenging deeply ingrained beliefs takes time, but each small step helps you shift the narrative by decentering men and embracing the reality that women are just as capable as anyone else.

Let this reflection empower you to trust in your abilities and uplift others!

December 4: Reflect on Situations Where You Silently Took in Misogyny

Today’s activity focuses on recognizing moments when you absorbed misogyny—whether from men or even other women—without speaking up.

Reflecting on these instances is a powerful step in decentering men and breaking free from societal conditioning that normalizes such behavior.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to write about the following:

1. Recall specific situations where you experienced or witnessed misogyny but remained silent.
   • Who instigated it, and what words or actions made it misogynistic?
   • Were women involved in perpetuating it?
2. Why were you silent in those moments?
   • Was it because you didn’t recognize it as misogyny at the time?
   • Did power dynamics, fear of conflict, or cultural norms hold you back?
3. Reflect on how you felt during and after the experience. Did you feel shame, guilt, rage, sadness, or confusion?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, write down one way you can prepare yourself to respond differently in the future. For example:

• Practice asserting boundaries when someone speaks or acts in a misogynistic way.
• Consciously choose to uplift and support other women in situations where misogyny is present.
• Remind yourself that decentering men means challenging harmful narratives, even in subtle ways.

This reflection is not about self-blame; it’s about self-awareness and empowerment. By recognizing these patterns, you can start to reclaim your voice and make space for a life free from internalized misogyny.

December 5: Reflect on How You Would React to Misogyny Now

Building on yesterday’s reflection, today’s activity is about envisioning how you would respond to situations of misogyny now that you’re more aware.

This practice empowers you to prepare for similar moments in the future, helping you stand firm in decentering men and prioritizing your self-worth.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. Revisit the situations of misogyny you listed in yesterday’s prompt.
   • How would you respond to those situations if they happened today?
   • Write down specific replies or actions you’d take to assert yourself or call out the behavior.
2. How has your perspective shifted since those moments?
   • Do you feel more confident in recognizing and addressing misogyny?
   • What new boundaries or principles guide your reactions now?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, write down a personal affirmation or reminder you can use in similar situations going forward. For example:

• “I have the right to call out harmful behavior, even if it makes others uncomfortable.”
• “Decentering men means prioritizing my voice, feelings, and dignity over societal expectations.”
• “I will no longer absorb misogyny in silence—I will stand up for myself and other women.”

This exercise is about equipping yourself with tools to act in alignment with your values. By planning your responses now, you’re empowering your future self to face challenges with strength and clarity.

 

December 6: Reflect on How Many Men Truly Deserve to Be in Your Life

Today’s activity is about taking stock of the men in your life, both online and offline, and evaluating whether they truly add value or drain your energy.

This reflection is a powerful exercise in decentering men by ensuring that only those who respect and uplift you occupy your space and time.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. List the men currently in your life—friends, colleagues, family members, and anyone in your online spaces.
   • How do these men treat you? Do they respect your boundaries, value your time, and show genuine care?
   • Are there any men who have disrespected you, belittled you, or drained your energy?
2. Reflect on why you’ve allowed these men to remain in your life.
   • Is it out of obligation, guilt, or a fear of confrontation?
   • How does their presence affect your mental and emotional well-being?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, take one action to begin a detox of the men in your life:

• Remove or block men who have disrespected you from your social media accounts.
• Set boundaries with men who take up your time and energy without giving anything positive in return.

Decentering men isn’t about rejecting them entirely—it’s about curating relationships where mutual respect and value exist.

By doing this detox, you create more room for peace, joy, and meaningful connections.

December 7: Reflect on How Many Pick-Me Women Are in Your Life

Today’s activity encourages you to examine the women in your life who center men at your expense.

Reflecting on these dynamics can help you identify relationships that no longer serve you and focus on building connections rooted in mutual support and respect.

This is a key step in decentering men and fostering healthier, more empowering relationships.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. Make a list of women in your life who consistently prioritize men’s needs, opinions, or validation—even when it’s at your expense.
   • How do their actions or words affect you?
   • Do they encourage or perpetuate behaviors that undermine your boundaries or self-worth?
2. Reflect on why these relationships persist in your life.
   • Is it due to shared history, obligation, or a fear of conflict?
   • Do you find yourself shrinking or compromising to maintain these connections?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, take one step to address these dynamics:

• Have an honest conversation with these women, expressing how their behavior impacts you and suggesting ways to create a more balanced relationship.
• If the behavior persists, set boundaries or limit your interactions to protect your well-being.
• Seek out relationships with women who uplift and support you, prioritizing connections that align with your values of decentering men and mutual empowerment.

This exercise isn’t about judging or blaming—it’s about choosing relationships that bring out the best in you.

By surrounding yourself with women who share your commitment to growth and self-respect, you can create a more supportive and fulfilling community.

December 8: Reflect on How Many Misogynistic Organizations and Businesses You Still Support

Today’s activity focuses on evaluating the organizations, businesses, and institutions you support, financially or otherwise, and their alignment with your values.

Reflecting on this helps you take a stand for decentering men by withdrawing your energy and resources from systems that perpetuate misogyny.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. List the businesses, organizations, or institutions you currently support—this could include brands, workplaces, social groups, or religious institutions.
   • Are any of them known for promoting misogynistic practices, beliefs, or policies?
   • How do you feel about continuing to support these entities?
2. Reflect on the challenges of withdrawing support.
   • Are there practical, social, or emotional barriers that make it difficult?
   • Would you be comfortable distancing yourself from a group, tradition, or religion if it conflicted with your values?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, take one small step to align your actions with your values:

• Research alternatives to businesses or organizations that you identify as misogynistic, and shift your support to those that prioritize equality and respect.
• If it feels safe and appropriate, consider expressing your concerns to the organization or discussing your decision with others in your circle.
• Reflect on ways to uphold your principles in areas where disengagement is challenging, like reinterpreting personal traditions or finding community outside of established institutions.

This reflection is about empowering yourself to make intentional choices that align with your values.

By withdrawing support from systems that perpetuate inequality, you contribute to a world where decentering men creates space for fairness, respect, and empowerment.

 

December 9: Reflect on How You Can Organize Like-Minded Women in Your Community

Today’s activity focuses on the power of women coming together to challenge patriarchy and support one another.

Reflecting on how to build a local community of like-minded women is a meaningful step in decentering men and fostering collective empowerment.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. Identify spaces where you could connect with like-minded women—this could be in your neighborhood, workplace, social groups, or even online communities.
   • Are there women in your life who share your values and could benefit from organizing together?
   • What common issues, goals, or experiences could bring you together?
2. Reflect on the purpose and structure of your group.
   • Would it be a support group, a social network, or an activism-driven collective?
   • What kinds of activities or discussions would the group focus on?

Bonus Task:
After journaling, take one small step to start building this community:

• Reach out to one or two women you trust and discuss the idea of organizing a group.
• Plan an informal meetup, like a coffee gathering or virtual chat, to brainstorm and connect.
• Research tools or platforms that could help you organize, such as group chats, newsletters, or community apps.

By creating spaces where women can unite and support one another, you take action toward decentering men and building a network that uplifts and empowers.

Together, women have the power to challenge systems of oppression and create meaningful change.

December 10: Support Women Content Creators Who Talk About Women’s Issues

Today’s activity focuses on using your online presence to amplify voices that challenge misogyny and advocate for women.

Social media algorithms often suppress political content related to women while allowing misogyny to thrive.

By intentionally supporting women content creators, you contribute to decentering men and reshaping the digital narrative.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. List women content creators, activists, or influencers whose work you admire, especially those addressing women’s issues.
   • What kind of content do they create?
   • How does their work inspire or empower you?
2. Reflect on your current engagement with their content.
   • Do you actively like, share, or comment on their posts?
   • How can you increase your support for their work?

Bonus Task:
Take immediate action to support women creators:

• Like and comment on at least five posts from women content creators you follow.
• Share their content to amplify their message within your network.
• Seek out new creators whose work aligns with decentering men and advocating for women’s empowerment.

By consciously supporting these voices, you help override biased algorithms and create a space where women’s issues are seen, heard, and valued.

Together, we can make social media a more empowering platform for women.

December 11: Commit to Supporting Women with Your Money, Time, and Energy

Today’s activity is about intentionally directing your resources—be it money, time, or energy—toward women.

By choosing to support women-led businesses, organizations, and causes, you contribute to decentering men and empowering women in meaningful ways.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. List ways you currently spend your money, time, and energy.
   • How much of it directly benefits women, such as supporting women-owned businesses or donating to women-focused charities?
   • Are there opportunities to shift your spending or efforts toward women?
2. Reflect on the impact of redistributing your resources.
   • How does supporting women contribute to their empowerment and well-being?
   • How does this practice align with your values of decentering men?

Bonus Task:
Take one action today to ensure your resources uplift women:

• Make a purchase from a women-owned business or service provider.
• Donate to a charity or organization focused on helping women.
• Offer your time or energy to a woman in your life who could use your support, such as mentoring, helping with a project, or simply showing appreciation.

By prioritizing women in how you distribute your resources, you actively contribute to a world where women are supported and celebrated.

Small intentional choices can create ripple effects of empowerment and change.

December 12: Withdraw Support from Male-Dominated Pop Culture That Centers Men

Today’s activity challenges you to reflect on the pop culture you consume and actively disengage from male creators who perpetuate misogyny or overshadow women’s contributions.

By withdrawing your support, you take a bold step in decentering men and amplifying women’s voices in sports, cinema, art, and beyond.

Journal Prompt:
Take 10-15 minutes to reflect and write about the following:

1. Make a list of male sports, cinema, art, or content creators you currently support.
   • Are any of them known for misogynistic behavior or views?
   • How has their content shaped your perception of culture, and does it truly align with your values?
2. Reflect on the broader cultural dynamic:
   • Men seldom support women’s sports, art, or cinema. How can you mirror this by choosing not to support male-dominated content that perpetuates harmful narratives?
   • Consider how male creators have often dominated or distorted art and culture, making it about themselves. How does disengaging from this content empower you to focus on more inclusive and authentic expressions of art and culture?

Bonus Task:
Take one action today to realign your cultural consumption:

• Unfollow or stop engaging with male creators who perpetuate misogyny or diminish women’s contributions.
• Actively seek out and support women-led projects in sports, cinema, or art. Share their work to amplify their visibility.
• Reflect on how redirecting your attention and resources to women creators can help shift the cultural narrative.

By withdrawing support from male-centric pop culture and championing women creators, you challenge the status quo and help cultivate a more balanced, empowering cultural landscape.

December 13: Consume at Least One Content Piece on Decentering Men Regularly

Why It Matters
Patriarchy is like the air we breathe—ever-present and often unnoticed because it’s normalized in our daily lives.

Decentering men isn’t something you do once; it’s an ongoing, intentional practice that requires consistency. 

Make it a daily habit to consume content that helps you identify, challenge, and move past patriarchal norms. This could include:

• Watching a video, TED Talk, or podcast that focuses on women’s empowerment, personal growth, or decentering men.
• Reading an article, blog, or book chapter that challenges outdated gender roles and uplifts your sense of self.
• Following creators, influencers, and educators who actively discuss dismantling patriarchal ideals, recovering from narcissistic relationships, and promoting independence.

A few creators I follow regularly are given below:

December 14: Focus on Your Finances, Ladies

We live in a capitalist world where financial independence is a key tool for overcoming patriarchy.

Focusing on your finances isn’t just about stability; it’s about building wealth, securing your future, and helping other women rise alongside you.

Trying to get rich isn’t selfish—it’s smart.

In a capitalist world, money gives you options, freedom, and the power to shape your life on your own terms.

Do not wait for a man, a partner, or anyone else to “take care” of your finances. And never outsource your financial planning entirely.

Managing money is a life skill every woman needs—one that protects you, empowers you, and helps you thrive.

Get Educated About Investing.  

A few finance content creators I follow regularly are given below:

December 15: Think of Business Ideas and Solutions That Can Destroy Patriarchy

Patriarchy is deeply embedded in industries, platforms, and workplaces. Instead of feeling powerless when you encounter misogyny, think creatively about how you can disrupt the system.

Whether it’s starting a business, creating solutions for overlooked problems, or hiring women in your company, every action you take chips away at patriarchal norms.

Your ideas can not only become a source of income but also empower other women, building a ripple effect of change.

December 16: Set Boundaries by Avoiding Arguments with Men

Today’s challenge is about protecting your peace and decentering men by consciously deciding not to engage in arguments with misogynistic men, whether online or offline.

1. Identify Triggers: Reflect on the platforms, topics, or people that usually provoke you into arguments. Is it a certain social media post? A conversation topic? A specific individual? Write these down in your journal.
2. Plan Your Response: Decide how you will handle these situations moving forward. For instance:
   • Online: Ignore hateful comments, unfollow accounts, or mute/unfriend individuals.
   • Offline: Politely redirect the conversation or excuse yourself.
3. Practice the Grey Rock Method: Similar to handling narcissists, stay neutral and unemotional when faced with baiting behavior. Don’t give them the reaction they’re seeking.

Key Reminder:
It’s not your job to educate anyone or change their misogynistic views. Decentering men from your energy allows you to prioritize your own well-being.

By disengaging from unproductive arguments, you reclaim time and energy that can be spent nurturing yourself or uplifting others who align with your values.

December 17: Reflect on Whether You Truly Need a Romantic Relationship

Today’s challenge is about decentering men by critically examining the societal narratives around romance and relationships. Reflect on whether your desire for a romantic relationship stems from genuine need or the result of conditioning and societal pressure.

• Journal Your Thoughts: Start by writing about your views on romantic relationships. Do you feel pressured to be in one? Why or why not?
• Unpack Societal Narratives: Reflect on the influence of media, family, and culture in shaping your ideas about romance. Have you internalized the belief that being single is undesirable?
• Examine Your Conditioning: Ask yourself:
  • Did I grow up seeing single women as fulfilled and happy?
  • Have I been gaslit into believing that my worth is tied to being in a romantic relationship?
  • Do I genuinely desire a partnership, or have I been sold an idea of romance as a life goal?
• Challenge the “Romance Myth”: Think about the ways romance is marketed to you—from movies to books to social media. Reflect on how this narrative benefits patriarchy and undermines the autonomy of women.
• List the Benefits of Being Single: Write down the ways being single empowers you, gives you freedom, and helps you focus on your personal growth.

Romantic relationships can be fulfilling, but they shouldn’t be a necessity for your self-worth or happiness.

By reflecting on these questions, you take a step toward living life on your terms, free from the pressures of patriarchy and societal norms.

December 18: Reflect on Areas Where You Try to Impress Others as a Woman

Today’s challenge focuses on uncovering areas in your life where societal expectations have influenced you to seek approval. By decentering men and societal norms, you can reclaim your authenticity and live for yourself, not for others’ validation.

• Journal Your Reflections:

  • Write about the ways you consciously or unconsciously try to impress others.
  • Consider moments when you sought approval—was it from men, family, peers, or society at large?

• Identify “Good Girl” Conditioning:

  • Reflect on the expectations placed on you as a woman. Did you grow up being told to be polite, look a certain way, or act “properly”?
  • How much of this conditioning still influences your behavior today?

• Analyze Approval-Seeking Patterns:

  • Examine small details:
    • Do you wear certain outfits to gain validation?
    • Do you use makeup to meet someone else’s standards rather than your own?
  • Reflect on whether men in similar situations feel pressured to do the same or if these behaviors stem from gendered expectations.

• Challenge the Status Quo:

  • Write about how you can shift your focus away from impressing others and toward embracing your true self.
  • List actions you can take to prioritize your happiness over external validation.

Decentering men means liberating yourself from behaviors that serve others’ expectations instead of your own.

You don’t need to conform to systems that dictate how you should look, act, or feel to be accepted.

December 19: Let Your Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Today’s challenge is about embodying the change you want to see in the world. By decentering men and living authentically, you can inspire other women simply by being unapologetically yourself.

• Reflect on Your Actions:

  • Think about how your daily choices—big or small—can influence and empower others.
  • Ask yourself: Am I living in alignment with my values and goals? Am I setting boundaries and focusing on my growth without needing external validation?

• Set Intentions:

  • Identify one action you can take today to live boldly and authentically.
  • Whether it’s asserting a boundary, pursuing a goal, or practicing self-care, let this action speak for itself without feeling the need to explain or justify it.

• Be a Role Model Without Words:

  • Remember that your confidence and courage in decentering men can inspire other women to do the same.
  • Recognize that simply living life on your terms sets a powerful example for others.

• Celebrate Your Wins:

  • Reflect on the goals you’ve achieved this year and how your progress aligns with your values.
  • Write about how these accomplishments might inspire young women around you to follow suit.

Courage is contagious. By being true to yourself—setting boundaries, achieving your goals, and refusing to conform to outdated norms—you become a silent but powerful force of inspiration.

You don’t have to lecture or justify yourself; your actions are enough.

December 20: Share Your Opinion Without Fear

Today, take a bold step in decentering men by sharing your opinion unapologetically.

Whether it’s online or offline, don’t shy away from calling out misogyny, double standards, or outdated societal norms.

• Identify a Topic:

  • Reflect on an issue or belief you’ve avoided discussing because of fear of backlash or judgment.
  • This could be related to gender inequality, personal boundaries, or societal expectations.

• Prepare Your Voice:

  • Write down your thoughts clearly and confidently. Think about how expressing this can empower you and possibly resonate with others.
  • Remind yourself that your voice matters and that speaking up is a powerful way to inspire change.

• Choose Your Platform:

  • Decide where you want to share your opinion—social media, a group conversation, or even a one-on-one discussion.
  • Use facts or personal experiences to strengthen your argument but don’t feel pressured to overexplain or justify yourself.

• Anticipate Reactions:

  • Understand that not everyone will agree with you, and that’s okay.
  • Remember, you’re not speaking for validation but to stand up for your beliefs and inspire others to do the same.

December 21: Address an Uncomfortable Truth With a Man in Your Life

Today’s focus is on reclaiming your voice and setting boundaries. Identify a behavior or comment from a man in your life that has made you uncomfortable, and address it directly with him.

• Reflect on the Issue:
• Think about a situation or recurring behavior that has made you uneasy. It could be a dismissive comment, an inappropriate joke, or a boundary that was crossed.
• Be specific about why it bothers you and how it impacts you emotionally or mentally.

• Prepare Your Approach:
• Decide on the best way to address this—whether in person, over a call, or in writing.
• Use “I” statements to express your feelings without making it accusatory. For example, “I feel disrespected when you [action/comment].”

• Stay Calm and Assertive:
• Avoid letting the conversation escalate into an argument. Keep your tone firm but respectful.
• Focus on how the behavior affects you rather than attacking the person.

• State Your Boundary:
• Clearly explain what you will and won’t tolerate moving forward.
• Let them know what you expect and the importance of mutual respect in your relationship.

• End With Resolution:
• Give the person a chance to respond and be open to hearing their perspective, but don’t compromise on your boundary.

 

December 22: Create All-Women Support Groups in Your Communities

Build intentional spaces for women to connect, share, and support each other within the communities you are part of—whether in your neighborhood, workplace, school, or online.

• Be clear about what the group is for—whether it’s mutual support, friendship, advocacy, or simply a safe space to chat.
• Establish the group’s values, such as being strictly anti-misogyny, anti-racism, and anti-classism.
• Decide on the types of conversations and behaviors that will be welcomed and what will not be tolerated (e.g., no “pick-me” behavior).
• You can use platforms like WhatsApp, Facebook, Slack, or even regular in-person meetings.

December 23: Speak About Femicides and Crimes Against Women Committed by Men

Femicides and gender-based violence against women are often treated as isolated incidents or tragedies without context.

Yet, these crimes stem from systemic misogyny and must be recognized as hate crimes. By speaking out, we challenge harmful norms and demand accountability.

• Learn the realities of femicides and gender-based violence. Statistics and real-life stories provide a clearer picture of the scale of this crisis.

https://www.unwomen.org/en/news-stories/press-release/2024/11/one-woman-or-girl-is-killed-every-10-minutes-by-their-intimate-partner-or-family-member

https://www.femicidecensus.org/reports/

• Identify how the media often downplays crimes against women with passive language (e.g., “woman found dead” instead of “man murdered woman”).

• Bring up the topic in family, friend, and community groups. State the facts clearly, even if it feels uncomfortable.

• Call attention to how crimes committed by men are often minimized or ignored in discussions about safety and gender equity.

• When men or others deflect or deny the problem, don’t engage in prolonged arguments. Simply restate the facts and move on. Use phrases like, “This isn’t a debate; it’s reality.”

December 24: Stop Giving Men the Benefit of the Doubt—Even If They Appear Progressive

While some men may present themselves as feminist or progressive, these labels don’t automatically guarantee trustworthy or respectful behavior.

Misogyny often hides behind a facade of progressiveness, and as women, we need to be vigilant about who we allow into our lives.

• Reflect on how often men who seem “woke” or “feminist” subtly shift blame, avoid accountability, or fail to act when it matters.

Example: “He champions women’s rights online but excuses his friend’s sexist jokes in person.”

• Assume neutrality until a man consistently proves he is safe, respectful, and aligned with your values through actions—not just words.

• Maintain boundaries until he earns your trust; this protects you.

Reflection Prompt: “What actions have I overlooked because I wanted to believe someone was different?”

December 25: Call Out People Who Are Apolitical or Apathetic Toward Women’s Issues

Being “apolitical” or indifferent to women’s struggles is a privilege and a form of complicity.

Every choice we make—whether it’s where we spend our money or who we support—has a political impact.

When people remain silent on issues affecting women, they contribute to the status quo of inequality and injustice.

• Every purchase, vote, and conversation holds power. Choosing to ignore injustices against women, especially in areas like reproductive rights, workplace inequality, and femicides, allows systemic oppression to thrive.
• Call out apathy when you see it. Silence in the face of injustice is a stance, and often, it’s one that upholds the oppressors.

Example: “Refusing to discuss issues like gender-based violence isn’t neutral; it’s enabling the problem.”

• People who choose to live in a bubble of privilege need to be confronted about the harm their indifference causes. While it’s not your job to educate them, pointing out their complicity can be a powerful wake-up call.

Conclusion: A Christmas to Celebrate Yourself and Other Women

This Christmas Activity is your invitation to reclaim the holidays and focus on what truly matters—yourself, your growth, and your connections with other women.

By intentionally shifting your energy away from men and societal expectations, you create space to reflect, heal, and empower yourself and those around you.