Beginner Friendly
Not sure which bundle is right for you? Start here.
You write first. However it comes out- messy, incomplete, one sentence or ten pages- your companion reads every word and writes back.
What’s included:
- 1 week access
- Up to 2 email exchanges
- Personal reply within 48 hours
Women write to their companions about:
- Relationships
- Narcissistic abuse
- Loneliness
- Big decisions
- Small things that bother them more than they feel they should
- Grief
- ADHD
- Overwhelm
- Decentering men
- Things they have never said out loud to anyone
Nothing is too small. Nothing is too dark. Nothing is too complicated.
This is the lowest-risk way to find out if this is for you.
$9
The Two-Week Reset
For when you need a contained space to work something through
Sometimes you don’t need months of support. You need two weeks and a focused, safe place to think out loud.
What’s included:
- 2 weeks access
- Up to 7 email exchanges
- Replies within 48 hours
- One weekly check-in from your companion apart from the email exchanges
- Focused support on one single goal or transition
This is for things like:
- A move — new city, new environment, starting over somewhere unfamiliar
- A job change or career transition
- A life decision you have been circling and cannot land on
- Any single problem that needs two weeks of focused, unhurried attention
How it works: You bring the one thing. Your companion helps you think it through, break it down, and find your footing.
One thing. Two weeks. Let’s get you through it.
$29
The Anchor
For the woman who wants someone in her corner, not just when things fall apart, but as a steady presence while she figures things out.
Some seasons of life do not need crisis support. They need consistency. Someone who shows up every week, knows where you left off, and does not need you to explain yourself from scratch every time.
What’s included:
- Up to 4 emails per week
- Personal replies within 24–48 hours
- One dedicated weekly check-in from your companion, separate from your email exchanges
- Personalised recommendations alongside your exchanges, such as books, podcasts, films, hobbies, curated to what you are going through, not generic lists
- Free access to a monthly women’s discussion.
- Optional: connect with a community of women walking similar paths. Entirely your choice, no pressure, a safe and private space if and when you want it
This is for you if:
- You are in therapy and need support in between sessions
- You are not in therapy yet and want somewhere to start before you are ready for that step
- You are an introvert who knows connection would help, but needs a gentler on-ramp than group spaces usually offer
- You are in an overwhelmed or anxious season and need someone to help you carry it
- You are lonely in a way that is hard to explain, not for lack of people around you, but for lack of someone who actually sees you.
$47
per month · cancel anytime
The Focus Companion
Built specifically for women with ADHD
You already know what you need to do. The problem isn’t knowledge, it’s the starting, the staying, the spiralling when you don’t. This bundle is built around how your brain actually works.
No, “just make a list.” No toxic positivity. No pretending that trying harder is the answer.
What’s included:
- Replies that break things into steps your brain can actually act on
- Shame-free weekly check-ins
- A safe place to vent when the spiral hits
- ADHD-aware pacing throughout
- Replies within 24 hours
- Up to 1 email a day
- Two 50-minute body camera-off double sessions per month. Additional sessions available as an add-on for $15 per session.
Body Doubling
Body doubling sessions are camera-off. Choose the format that works for your brain: silent virtual presence or voice-only. You decide each time.
Best for: Women who find any social interaction draining yet still need to maintain a presence to function.
- You do not need to explain what you are working on in detail
- You do not need to perform productivity
- You do not need to report back with results
$59
per month · cancel anytime
A Simple Guide for Getting Started
Note: Some of the links on this page are affiliate links. Ungaslited may earn a commission if you purchase through our links. But this comes at no additional cost to you.
Should You Use Your Regular Email?
You can. Many women do. But if you are writing about something sensitive, your regular email may not be the safest place to do it.
The Safer Option is ProtonMail
ProtonMail is a free, private email service. It is what your companion uses on her end. When you both use ProtonMail, your entire exchange is end-to-end encrypted, meaning nobody can read it except the two of you. Not even Proton itself.
When it especially matters:
- If you are in or leaving a controlling relationship
- If someone monitors your devices or accounts
- If you are writing about something you are not ready for anyone else to see
- If privacy matters to you and you want complete peace of mind
How to Set Up a ProtonMail Account
Step 1: Go to PROTON MAIL in your browser
Step 2: Click Create a free proton account or premium account ($1 per month; special offer)
Step 3: Choose a username; it does not have to be your real name. It does not have to identify you at all. Something simple and unmemorable is fine.
Step 4: Create a password. Make it something only you know. Write it somewhere safe, not on your device.
Step 5: Proton may ask you to complete a simple verification, usually a CAPTCHA. No phone number is required on the free plan.
That is it. Five minutes. Everything from that point is fully private on both ends.
Use this email to purchase the plan, or email your new address to [email protected] and let your companion know you have switched. She will move your correspondence there.
If You Stay With Your Regular Email
That is completely fine. Just a few things to consider:
- Log out of your email when you are not using it, especially on shared devices
- Do not save your email password in a shared browser
- Consider deleting emails after reading if you are in a situation where someone may access your account
- Use a private or incognito browser window when checking your correspondence; incognito windows do not save browsing history or keep you logged in
Your safety matters. Even small habits make a difference.
You Can Tell Her If a Reply Did Not Land
If something your companion said felt off, if it missed the mark, if it was not what you needed, if it felt too much like advice when you wanted to be heard, tell her.
She would rather know.
There is no awkwardness in saying:
“That last reply did not quite land for me. I think what I actually needed was…”
That kind of honesty makes everything work better. You are not being difficult. You are being clear. Those are not the same thing.
There is no wrong request. Telling her what you need means she can give it to you.
Some examples:
“I do not need advice. I just need to feel heard.”
“I genuinely do not know what to do and would love your honest take.”
“I think I already know the answer but I need someone to help me see it.”
“I just need to vent. Please do not try to fix this.”
“I am looking for a reality check. Be honest with me.”
Some Ways to Start If You Are Stuck
If the blank page is too much, try one of these:
“Right now I am feeling…”
“The thing that has been taking up the most space in my head lately is…”
“Something happened, and I cannot stop thinking about it…”
“I have been okay but not really okay, and here is why…”
“I have never said this out loud but…”
“I do not even know where to start, but…”
“Everything feels like too much right now and specifically…”
Pick the one that feels closest and keep going.
FAQs
Is this therapy?
No. Woman-to-Woman is not therapy, counselling, or any form of clinical mental health treatment. Your companion is not a licensed therapist or psychologist. This is a private email companionship service, a real woman who listens, responds thoughtfully, and walks alongside you. If you are dealing with a clinical mental health condition, please also work with a qualified professional.
Is this coaching?
No. There are no frameworks, no programmes, no goals you have to hit. This isn’t about performance or outcomes. It’s about having someone genuinely in your corner, someone who reads what you write and responds like she means it.
Who is my companion?
A real woman. Not an AI, not a bot, not a templated response system. Every reply is written personally in response to what you actually sent. You will have one consistent companion, not a rotating team, not a random responder.
Will anyone else read my emails?
No. Your emails are received through ProtonMail, an end-to-end encrypted, Swiss-based, with zero third-party access. Your companion reads your emails. Nobody else does. No team members, no supervisors, no administrators. There are no exceptions.
Do I have to explain my whole story every time?
No. Your companion reads everything you’ve sent before. You pick up where you left off. You never have to re-introduce yourself or catch anyone up.
What can I write about?
Anything. There is no topic that is off-limits, too small, too dark, or too complicated. Women write about narcissistic abuse and recovery, grief, loneliness, burnout, relationships, decentering men, navigating life in a world not built for them, ADHD, brain fog, big decisions, small decisions, things they’ve never said out loud to anyone.
Can I upgrade or change my bundle?
Yes, at any time. Just let your companion know. Changes take effect at your next billing cycle.
Refund Policy
All sales are final. Ungaslited LLC does not offer refunds on any products.
Monthly subscriptions can be cancelled at any time before the next billing date. Cancellation stops future charges. It does not generate a refund for the current billing period already paid.
We strongly recommend purchasing the $9 First Letter before committing to any monthly or multi-week bundle. This trial exists specifically so you can experience the service with minimal financial commitment before deciding.